re. donations: generally the ads should be decent ads and preferably food related. with that said, I don't control the ad approval process ;-) and chances are, if they don't fit they'd be declined. My Amazon wish-list is way safer :-)
re. coding: I don't want to get started - and will make sure to keep it really brief - but the whole WP.org way of handling things, e.g. suggestions, bug reports, plugin developers, coding priorities etc. is so, I mean SOO ludicrous that I've been inclined several times to remove my plugin from the WP.org site and stop developing it further.
Unfortunately aforementioned attitude starts to show in the product, the WP2.5 UI is a bad great example among others. As this seems to become a trend, I will certainly keep an eye wide open for alternative platforms.
Slightly of topic, but with the above said, nothing surprises me.