Hello, and thanks for the answer, and well the "gentle" part was mostly to ensure that I did't get kicked off for my somewhat dyslexicia knowledge about code.
But. I put this code in my header, but with no change.
<?php wp_head(); ?>
The form has no style sheet attached.
Maybe I should explain what I got right now.
2 page in my theme, where I want a "contact" form, one in danish other in english, but using the same css.
In my theme I have one style sheet linked, thats the one my form is using right now (I think).